Ready for a No-Buy, No-Recieve Christmas
Published November 23, 2009 @ 16:46 in My 2 Cents
It all started two years ago with an entry entitled "The Story of Stuff." It was about our mega-consumer society and the stuff we accumulate, particularly at this time of year.
In the comments of that entry, I wrote a comment that was heavily on my mind all last December. Here's what I wrote.
I've been flirting with an idea. Not for this Christmas, but for next Christmas. It's still perculating, but the premise is fairly simple.
It's a "no-buy, no-receive" policy that we, as individuals, promote. It requires one inform all of their friends and loved ones what they're doing in advance. Essentially, you're not buying holiday gifts - and you don't want to receive holiday gifts. You can do things for people, and should do things for people, and you should spend time with those you care about and spread good cheer, but you don't buy them stuff.
When you're in the "no-buy, no-receive" program, you may influence others to try something similar. Heck, if you can do it, so can others. You still take care of the kids, Santa still comes, but adults get nothing. If they want to get you something, ask them to donate a little coin to your favourite charity or to sponsor your Terry Fox run or something like that.
"No-buy, no-receive"... I'm seriously considering making such a statement in 2008, and if I do, you can read how it all works out right here.
Last year, my wife, my mom and my brothers and I reached a compromise. We played "Secret Santa" and threw our names in a hat. I saw "Secret Santa" as a gateway drug to where I wanted to go in 2009. No-buy, no-receive.
Now I'm ready to go whole-hog. Don't buy me anything for Christmas, please. With kids being the exception, it's time we all implemented a no-buy, no-receive policy.
We've all got enough stuff.
Irvine
November 23, 2009 / 17:02
Amen dude. Last year I helped out at Christmas giving people something to eat. It's not a gig everyone can do that's for sure.
I met a woman who came in with a friend. She asked for 3 plates but there was only two of them. She told me that the 3rd plate was for her daughter and soon she would be there and she was beautiful.
Dude with her told me that her daughter died in a car accident 3 years ago and the woman hadn't yet accepted what had happened.
Someone like that needs food & help way more than we need another electronic gadget.